You can remove all control elements from the video player (using the "controls" attributes in the <video>
tag): HTML video Tag
After doing that, you will have to add a button and use some JavaScript on it, so that it will start the video playback.
Please note that modern browsers may allow respondents to (re-)display the control elements by right-clicking on the video element. And respondents with some technical expertise may simply ask the browser for "more information" about the video file.